Twenty years ago my husband, Tom, stood on a deck in Australia and looked out at the ocean. We traveled the world, but it was Australia/New Zealand we thought was our trip of a lifetime. When Tom retired from his profession, he volunteered at the Phoenix Botanical Garden for many years, then St. Mary’s food bank. Always active, always helping others. But 10-12 years ago, life changed. Alzheimer’s took its toll on a good man, and he slowly went downhill. He always knew me and our children, but not a lot else. Still, he kept his sense of humor and his kindness. Two days ago, on December 26, 2021, the long battle was over. He passed away, with our daughter and me at his bedside, holding his hand, telling him we loved him. My heart aches, but more for the long struggle and how difficult it was for him. So I am thankful he is finally at peace. And those of you who knew him, remember the good years well lived. In our hearts forever.